Most people report having a fetish, and as you know, they are nothing to be ashamed of. One common but sometimes unspoken fetish is the foot fetish, which sex expert Coleen Singer defines as, “a heightened and specific sexual interest in feet and/or footwear. It is the most common form of sexual fetishism for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts, and is more prevalent in men than women.”
If you find that seeing a bare foot can cause just as intense or even more erotic emotions as seeing a person naked, you may also have this fetish. The more you can learn about your foot fetish, the more empowered you will be to act on it, and even incorporate it into your sex life. Here’s why:
- Luckily for you – everyone has feet, and unlike some fetishes, you will be able to see and enjoy bare feet quite frequently – think the beach, in a night club, even at a yoga class! You can enjoy a foot fetish without another object and it’s not dangerous. Ultimately, feet are free, accessible and just by just thinking about them your own imagination could turn you to mush.
- Everyone has their own kinks, so if you have a new partner and are worried about their reaction, opening up to them might actually allow them to entrust their own desires upon you! Try and frame the conversation around sexual fantasies and experiences that you are both interested in, and then explain to them the appeal of feet in particular.
As with any intimate personal detail, it might feel incredibly difficult to bring up this conversation, and possibly even more so with someone you have been with for a long time but you haven’t yet confided in. It is important to be detailed, specific and honest if you want to make it work.
- Why not incorporate foot play into your sexual routine? Some foot fetishes are born from the desire to be submissive, for example some men fantasise about rubbing, massaging, smelling, licking and even foot worship.
You could begin experimenting with some foot inspired foreplay such as licking, toe sucking, or using the feet to stimulate the males penis and balls.
Others get gratification from more hardcore play during bondage such as binding and cuffing the feet, being stepped on, and experimenting with rope bondage. All of these methods could be the perfect way to get up close and personal with your partner’s oh so sexy feet.
- The internet has a whole host of sites dedicated to foot fetishism, where you can find like-minded people, foot pictures aplenty and even websites dedicated to celebrity feet crushes (a really popular one is actress Emma Stone who even has a tumblr dedicated to her perfectly polished, clean, high-arched feet). Content creators often kiss their own feet or are recorded having people kiss their feet for them, as this is appealing to those with a foot fetish. You may stumble across many niches online, such as no shoes football, which is a big talked about thing in the foot fetish world – people love those vulnerable feet!
If you want some help taking some Instagram worthy foot pictures, see our LoveWoo top picks below:
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Causes of a foot fetish vary from no specific reason, a desire to be submissive, or the fetish may have developed in response to an early erotic experience with feet that lead to the association – but whatever the cause, there is no reason why you cannot enjoy this sexual quirk and why it cannot become an important part of your sexual pleasure and routine.